Change your mind when you have good reason, but when you take up an idea be positive, make your action at that moment with enthusiasm and commitment.
Nothing is more unsettling to life than indecision, whether it is your own or other people’s. This applies as much to homelife as worklife. Since childhood we have all been trained to accept decisions and to live along lines designated by someone’s ultimate conclusion and although often we may disagree with the final reasoning, for most of our lives we feel comfortable when decisions are made, we know where we stand. In simple instances it may be a case for deciding which movie to go to or where to eat. Or it might be less frivolous and demand serious consideration like which work offer to accept, which apartment to buy, when to get married, whether or not to divorce. In each instance a decision is made by being positive, a situation resolved by a decision taken.
Of course everyone is entitled to change their mind or opinion as they see fit and should do so. No decision should be seen as necessarily binding if good reasoning proves otherwise. But until for good reason you change your mind, stick by your decision.
And should you find you have reached an incorrect conclusion, worry not. Change again with a positive decision. Situations alter as fresh facts or influences become evident. When fresh facts present themselves each problem has to be reconsidered afresh.
In survival generally, it is vital to be positive in action and pursue decisions with commitment. Being indecisive during the male-menopause only adds to the worry of being a failure.
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