There are two types of girls in school. Some have a lot of sex and talk about it and everything. The other girls are nice, and they don’t do it or talk about it much. If you get to be like a bad one, the boys know it and flock around you like flies, but the good girls will stay away from you and you won’t have nice friends.
If there are a thousand girls at your school, then there are a thousand types of girls, because everyone is different. During our school years, and even when you are an adult, it seems easier to classify or put people into categories, especially if someone else is seen as less or worse than we are. That seems to keep us safe from being on the wrong side of things, looking bad ourselves. We are all insecure. Some girls and boys use sex to be popular, to get friends, or to get noticed, even if it is bad notice. Good girls will never draw boys like flies, but you won’t want to. You will want to have a lot of friends and sooner or later just one boy. Remember, boys and girls make up a lot of stories about sex because they don’t get to talk with their parents. A lot of that is wishful thinking or even fear coming out. And you know what? I have never met a really bad girl or a bad boy, just sometimes troubled, angry, frightened boys and girls who make up stories because they are confused. The more confused they are, the more they have to make things up.
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